It’s been a while since my last post, my apologies. I admit I am quite unique and more fragile than I want to be at times. I have struggled with people judging me and I find that unfair. I think it’s important to remember that you really only ever see what is on the surface, and even then that can be shrouded by a mask. We all hide our vulnerabilities from others, we don’t want them to know what hurts us for fear that they will just exploit or reject us and hurt us some more. Yes, this makes us fragile. On those days where the hurt is a little more real and to the surface it is so easy to be ill tempered and irrational. Usually people will see you then and make judgements and assumptions about who you really are. Rarely do they know or care to see what it took to get you to that point. However, we can be like that too. This is when we need to step back and remember when we have been there in those exceptionally deep valleys that sometimes seem endless and give love instead of judgement. I try to be open minded and without judgement for others, I’m not always good at it either. Just try to remember two things, one you don’t really know what is going on and you have been there too. With that you will have compassion for those who are having a hard time. We are all unique and all worthy of love not judgement.