I stay home mostly and never really cared about how I looked. I would wear work out clothes and hair up in a pony tail every day. It just was not that important to me. I realized that I carried that I don’t care attitude into everything I did. So, I decided to be intentional with my actions and get dressed like I was going somewhere putting on my make-up and jewelry too. Now I was up and prepared for anything. There is a huge correlation between how we look and how we feel. I am still working on my old habits of been short tempered in wal-mart when those self check out machines don’t work but it will all come in time. You can’t look good and act bad the two just don’t go together…..It did help that I had lost weight and could fit into my clothing.